contemplation practice

Standing in the Doorway

5 · 10 min4 steps

Before you begin

If possible, do this practice standing in an actual doorway of your home.

The practice, step by step — read it all first if you like

  1. Look back

    Face the room behind you. Name what is ending — the season, role or version of you that belonged there.

    about 120 seconds

  2. Thank and grieve

    Offer one thanks and one honest grief for what is behind.

    about 120 seconds

  3. Turn

    Turn physically toward what is ahead. You cannot see the whole of it; that is normal.

    about 60 seconds

  4. Step

    Name one small thing the new room asks of you — then take one literal step forward.

    about 60 seconds

Accessibility

The doorway is helpful but optional; the practice works seated, in imagination.

How long do you have?

Or read through it quietly above, at your own pace.