contemplation practice

Blessing the Ones I Love

5 · 10 min4 steps

Before you begin

Sit quietly and bring to mind the people who hold your life together — one face at a time.

The practice, step by step — read it all first if you like

  1. First face

    Hold the first person in mind. Name silently what they give you. Wish them one specific good.

    about 120 seconds

  2. Second face

    The second person — including one the relationship is harder with. Wish them good anyway, from a safe distance if needed.

    about 120 seconds

  3. My own face

    Include yourself in the circle. Wish yourself the same quality of good.

    about 90 seconds

  4. One action

    Choose one small act of love to perform today for someone in the circle.

    about 60 seconds

Accessibility

Photographs may help but are not needed; the practice is entirely inward.

How long do you have?

Or read through it quietly above, at your own pace.