contemplation practice

A Fair Trial for Myself

10 · 15 min4 steps

Before you begin

Bring the thing you cannot forgive yourself for. Approach it as a fair court, not a firing squad.

The practice, step by step — read it all first if you like

  1. The charge

    State what you did, plainly and precisely — no exaggeration, no softening.

    about 120 seconds

  2. The context

    State what was true then: your pressures, your knowledge, your wounds. Context explains; it does not erase.

    about 120 seconds

  3. The repair

    Name what repair remains possible: an apology, a change, a lesson kept. Choose one.

    about 120 seconds

  4. The sentence

    Pronounce the sentence a kind judge would: remorse, repair, and release to a life made useful.

    about 90 seconds

Accessibility

Can be journalled or held silently; both are complete.

How long do you have?

Or read through it quietly above, at your own pace.